The Growth Moment with Amy K CoachingDecember 8, 2021
019 Discipline = Freedom – Coaching Clay S
changing that love/hate relationship
The fundamental theme for this coaching is ‘discipline’ and Clay’s love/hate relationship with it. Lack of discipline is what Clay identifies as holding him back. What’s cool about this episode is it’s not a cheerleading exercise. MY job is to help uncover, raise awareness, shine a light – see if there is a new perspective that my CLIENT discovers to unlock the next level. So, what’s in it for you? I want you to check out what’s holding YOU back. Listen to the coaching to see what clicks & triggers an ‘aha’ to transform your relationship with a long standing personal block.
MY GUEST: Clay Solomon
Today I get to coach Clay! Clay is someone who LOVES to win. Driven. Highly competitive. Huge expectations for success. He’s 32 years old, arguably very successful but is yearning for that next level and moving past what is holding him back. The fundamental theme for this coaching is ‘discipline’ and Clay’s love/hate relationship with it. Lack of discipline is what Clay identifies as holding him back.
What’s cool about this episode is it shows how coaching is not a cheerleading exercise – I’m not pumping up Clay about how awesome discipline is & how he should just be more disciplined & problem solved! MY job is to help uncover, raise awareness, shine a light – see if there is a new perspective on a blockage that my CLIENT discovers to unlock the next level. It’s about Clay leading the way, not me.
So, what’s in it for you? I want you to check out what’s holding you back from next level growth. Not just ‘more success’ but WHATEVER growth you are most desiring. Indeed, it might be a lack of discipline that is holding you back. It might be speaking up in the world. Perhaps it’s something you need to learn, study or practice. An old belief that needs to go. Where do YOU have a ‘love/hate’ relationship with something that you know is key to your growth?
This episode demonstrates the power of shifting your perspective. Looking at something as a ‘relationship’ helps you step outside of a block – look at it from a different angle. It can be helpful with any block – for example, with earning more money, saving money, any money thing – I often have a client talk about ‘what kind of relationship do you have with money? What kind of relationship do you WANT to have?’ It’s amazing what the relationship lens can open up. Same for any block – money, discipline, vulnerability, taking a risk, speaking in public – anything.
Think about YOUR block. What does your relationship to that block look like? Feel like? How do you WANT to BE instead? This approach might break something loose for you, trigger a shift … or not! The point is to play with it. Just like Clay – use your very own metaphors, examples. This is about you.
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Now, get out there and GROW TODAY!